When does the hurt go away? I was with him for 2 years. He raised my 2 year old since he was 4 weeks old. i gave him everything and he took it all away. i did more for him than his entire family, and i'm the one who got robbed. i love him but hate him. want him to suffer the pain that I feel. I want to know if he is okay, but don't want him around to emotionally hurt my kids anymore. How can you move on, and still keep your sanity. Will I ever trust another guy after all this? Is it really true when people say "the right guy will come along for you?" Is that all just made up shit to make you feel better?